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School Room

Like almost everyone else, our school year is off to a vastly different start than what we could have ever expected. We opted to enroll the kids in our district’s virtual school option for the year. Before we came to that decision, we thoroughly researched homeschooling and considered what it would look like to send them back in person (if that were even an option). After a lot of discussion between Corey and I, with the kids, with my mom who is a teacher, and a lot a prayer, we decided that in order to provide a sense of predictability and still give the kids a chance to at least see other kids, enrolling in the virtual school was the best option for us.

Once we decided the kids would be at home for the year, we knew the first room we needed to tackle in this new house was the “flex room”. This is the first room in our house, right off the front door. When we first moved in, this was going to be the craft room. For a while we had a desk set up as a sewing table, our old kitchen island as a cutting table, and a wardrobe full of fabric and craft supplies. That was back when we thought two of the three kids would be in school five days a week and I would actually have time to use a sewing machine. Instead of a room that would be fully utilized on very few occasions, we thought the best use of this space was to turn it into an office/virtual school room/future homework room.

We started by building an almost floating desk. The desk wall is over ten feet long, so a true floating desk didn’t seem quite sturdy enough. So we added a couple of brackets underneath that are almost invisible. We also added three shelves to hold school supplies. The shelves are simply 1×12 pine boards that we stained and attached with black metal brackets.

We added three chairs that we already had in various places around our house. One for Cullen, one for Colette, and one for me in the middle to facilitate their lessons as needed. Corinne jumps in my seat sometimes and will use it more as she gets older. At each work station, we added some utensil baskets to hold supplies. There are a couple of cork boards to hold daily schedules and login information to help our school days run as smoothly as possible.

Along with baskets to hide supplies, we filled the shelves with plants, books (new and old), and a few vintage finds from @chelseamohrman.

On the other side of the room, we have a chair and side table for circle time and reading. A whiteboard turned calendar gives us space for calendar math, and has room to write down the important to-dos for the week. I brought in the IKEA easel from the playroom. Corinne loves to draw on it while the older two are in lessons and it gives us a large place for them to practice writing and work on other new skills without going through a ton of paper.

We also moved in the bookshelf full of kids books and the kids table for Corinne to play at. We added a clock with a school room feel and brought in some of our educational toys for some hands-on learning. Since so much of their day will be spent looking at an iPad, I tried to provide as many other screen-free learning tools as possible to reinforce their lessons and make learning fun.

We are only a little over a week into the school year, so I am sure that things will get changed around a little as we fine tune our school day needs. But so far, having this dedicated school space has been amazing. Even when are done with school for the day, they have been coming in here to read and play school.

I am beyond grateful that we had the option and ability to make this choice for our family. And I know we could have just as easily done virtual learning at the kitchen table like we did last spring. But it feels so good to give this room a purpose. I want every room in our home to be fully used and fully loved.

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We Are Moving

In less than two weeks, we are moving to a whole new city. Corey is working with a new firm in Charlotte, NC which means a pretty big move for our family. We want to stay in SC, so we will be moving a little town just inside the state border, about an hour and a half from where we live now. We currently live in the same town I grew up in. In fact, for the last two and a half years, we have lived in the same neighborhood I grew up in. Cullen has been going to the same elementary school I went to. Almost all our family lives here, and we are leaving what we thought would be our forever home.

I am currently feeling all the emotions. Nervous about such a big change. Excited for a new adventure. So sad that we will go from living in the same neighborhood with one set of grandparents and only thirty minutes from the other, to living almost two hours away (considering traffic and never-ending highway construction.) But mostly, I am hopeful for what this means for our family. I know that God has a plan and we are just doing our best to follow His direction. I am also excited that we will be moving to the same area as my brother and sister-in-law and also much closer to Corey’s sister and her husband.

When Corey took this job back in December, we planned on keeping the kids in their schools here until the end of the school year. We wanted to make this change as easy on them as possible. But after over two months of being separate from Corey and solo parenting three or four nights every week, we decided it was better for us to all be together as soon as possible. We also think it might be easier for Cullen to make new friends during the school year rather than over the summer when he wouldn’t have as many opportunities to get to know other children in the area.

I have waited so long to share this news publicly because I wanted to wait until all of our ducks were in a row. Corey has been living up there since the first of the year and coming home on weekends. We have spent the past few months looking at so many houses and getting our house ready to sell. Once our house was listed, we had multiple offers and were under contract within 72 hours. We were less than two weeks from closing and the sale fell through due to buyer financing. At the time, I was really mad about what happened and how it happened, but we re-listed the house and were back under contract the next day. We have once again gone through inspections and the appraisal and we are now ready to close on the sale of our home here.

We are currently selling or donating anything that we don’t love or won’t fit in our new house. Everything else has to be ready to be loaded on the moving truck this weekend. We are currently surrounded by boxes and are surviving on the bare minimum. This next week or so will be an adventure in minimalism and making due with what we have.

As soon as we close here, we will be set to close on our new house. I’ll share more about our new home later, but it is very different than what we are used to. We are actually buying new construction. I have always loved an older home that needs some love, but with our budget and what the area has to offer, we just couldn’t find anything that met all of my specific requests. So even though our new house is much different than what we thought we would end up buying, we think it will be a great fit for our family. I am going to miss our current house so much, but I am looking forward to decorating a new house and making it feel like us!

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The Best Mother’s Day Gift

Nothing brings me more joy than seeing my kids try to bring joy to others.

This is the first year Cullen has really seemed to understand Mother’s Day.

He came home from school on Friday with a plan but would only tell Corey about it. He tried all afternoon to whisper it to him and was finally able to around 8:00 at night. I heard them whispering as they went from room to room. After much hushed discussions, Cullen very coyly asked me if we had ingredients to make a cake.

“It would have to be from scratch,” I told him.

More whispering.

He came back to ask how to make a cake from scratch.

I told him he’d need a recipe.

“Just curious,” he said. “Where is your cookbook. And what page is the cake recipe on?”

“What kind of cake are you looking for?”

“Um, what is your favorite kind of cake?”

I pulled out my Better Homes & Gardens Cook Book and showed him the recipe for Angel Food Cake on page 182. He looked over it like he was genuinely asking out of pure curiosity. Nothing else was said about it for a while.

When I was putting him in bed, he asked if I would go to sleep right after he did. He said I deserved to go to bed early because I worked hard. And then he started fake snoring.

I asked Corey about it and apparently Cullen was planning to sneak out of bed after I was asleep and work with Corey to make my favorite cake as my Mother’s Day gift. I explained how difficult and time consuming an Angel Food Cake can be and Corey quickly reached out to my mom for help. In the end, Corey took Cullen and Colette to my parents’ house the next day and she walked them through making the cake. And it was delicious!

Cullen was so excited to be able to “surprise” me with my favorite cake. It was the most thoughtful gift I have ever received. He came up with the idea all on his own and did all that he could to make sure that I got it. And he tried so hard to keep it a secret. (He still doesn’t know that I figured out the surprise beforehand and I hope he never does.)

As delicious as that cake was (and they did a really good job for two guys who had never made a cake before), the real gift was watching Cullen as he pulled the whole thing together. He has such a big and loving heart and was overjoyed to be able to do something special for me.

Kids Monthly Update

Corinne’s Monthly Updates

I have not done so well keeping up with monthly updates about Corinne. My last post was when she was two months old. #thirdchildproblems So let’s catch up, OK?

Corinne is now EIGHT months old! She has (obviously) changed so much in the last six months.

Eight Months:

  • She has been saying “mama” for a couple of weeks. It sounded like babbling at first, but she only says it when she wants me to pick her up. So I’m claiming that “Mama” is officially her first word.
  • She weighs almost 20 lbs.
  • She now hates being laid on her back which makes diaper changes super fun since we have to constantly flip her back over.
  • Has been going through a sleep regression. She went from sleeping for a solid nine hours at night with a two hour morning nap to waking up at least three times during the night and struggling to nap for longer than 30 minutes in the mornings. This has been going on for a couple of weeks now, but we are working on getting back to a normal sleep routine.

Seven Months:

  • She first crawled at almost 7 months (on March 10, 2019).
  • She started pushing up to seated from her stomach at around 6 1/2 months.
  • We had to lower her crib at 6 1/2 months because she pulled to standing in her crib.
  • She likes to hold my hand while she nurses, which is the sweetest thing!

Six Months:

  • At this point, Corrine was sitting on her own really well.
  • She was so close to crawling, always rocking on her hands and knees.
  • Start almost exclusively sleeping on her stomach. She flips over as soon as I lay her down, sometimes even trying to flip mid-air while she is asleep.
  • At six months, she weighed 18 lbs (82nd %) and was 27.5″ tall (96th %).

Five Months:

  • At five months old, she was thisclose to sitting on her own.
  • She weighed 17 lbs.

Four Months:

  • At four months, she was an expert at rolling both directions.
  • She weighed 15 lb 4.5 oz (71st %) and was 26.5″ tall (99th %).
  • This was about the time that we moved her out of the bassinet in our room to her own crib in her room. She transitioned really well and, for the most part, has done great ever since.

Three Months:

  • At three months old, Corinne could roll from front-to-back and from back-to-front. She just usually chose not to, happy to be wherever we put her.

I could kick myself for not keeping up with these monthly posts. I really wish I could remember more specific details from each months. Their personalities change and develop so quickly at this young age, that looking back, it’s hard to remember what happened when. Especially with the third baby, it is all a blur that just won’t slow down.

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Corinne – Two Months

At two months old, Corinne:

  • Weighs 12 lbs 8 oz and is 24 inches long.
  • Still wears 0-3 month clothes, but will soon be up a size at least in sleepers.
  • Sleeps at least 5 hours at night, usually 6 or even 7 hours at a time!
  • Is so alert and awake during the day! She has the best smiles and is starting to “talk” to us when she is really happy. She loves when we sing to her and likes to make “cooing” sounds back and forth with us.
  • Still hasn’t been away from me for more than 15 minutes. Tonight is our first night back at church, and I know she will do great in nursery, but I will miss her for those two hours!

Cullen still asks to kiss her at least once a day. Colette still wants to touch her all the time and brings her gifts; like a feather from the craft box or a raw potato from the kitchen. It’s very sweet and very strange. We are working on what are appropriate toys for babies. It’s very clear they love her dearly!

Kids Monthly Update

Corinne – One Month

Corinne is one month old today! So far she is a very content baby. Like a true third child, she is happy to just go with the flow. She pretty much still just eats and sleeps, but has a little more awake time every day. At one month, Corinne:

  • Weighs 10 lbs 12 oz and is 22 inches long.
  • Wears mostly 0-3 month clothing. I can still squeeze her into a couple of newborn rompers (for today anyway), but nothing with feet.
  • Still likes to eat at least every 3 hours, usually more often than that. She is a growing girl after all!
  • Really seems to like being on her tummy. Her doctor commented on how much she like being on her tummy and how well she is doing with head control. “She’s only one month old, right? She acts like a two month old!”
  • Is a mommy’s girl and would let me hold her all day (and night). But that may have more to do with where her food comes from.
  • Only sleeps at most 3 hours at a time, but must be swaddled tightly if she is in her bassinet. She still has a few nights when she wants to just hang out and look around for a few hours while everyone else is sleeping. But those are getting less frequent and she is getting better about eating and going right back to sleep.

Everyone in our house is truly in love with her. Cullen asks if he can kiss her all. the. time. And Colette wants to touch her constantly. This past month has flown by, but at the same time it feels like she has been a part of our family forever!

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Siblings

Today is our last day as a family of four. The last day before these two best friends get a new best friend.

Since she was born, Cullen has been so in love with Colette. When she was a baby, he kissed on her, wanted to hold her, and talked about how much he loved her all of the time. As she has gotten older, they have become best friends. Sure, they have their fights and pick on each other like every other brother and sister out there, but they really love playing together. Most days they disappear to one of their rooms or the playroom and play for hours.

They always have each others back. Cullen helps her when she can’t reach something. If Colette gets a snack for herself, she always brings something for Cullen too. They take turns picking TV shows (usually). Colette says Cullen is her “bestest friend ever”!

Cullen has been a great big brother, so I have no doubt that he will love Corinne just as much. And I’m pretty sure he will be a huge help during the first few weeks as I recover. He really enjoys serving those he loves; I am expecting him to want to help with diaper changes and baths and anything he can that will help me and his newest sister.

Colette loves babies, so I’m sure Corinne will get all the attention and kisses she could ever want. Since we decided on a name, Colette has been talking about Baby Corinne and loving on my belly.

I am so excited to see their reactions when they see their new baby sister for the first time. I know they will love her to pieces, but I really hope that as they all get older, they make her an equal part of their friendship. But I also hope that they keep loving on each other just the same.

Pregnancy

Pregnancy Update

I am now 30 weeks pregnant and firmly in the third trimester. This pregnancy has flown by, hence the lack of pregnancy related posts (or any posts for that matter). I had grand plans of posting updates every month but between morning sickness and first trimester exhaustion, taking care of a three-year-old and five-year-old, and updating our new home, the blog has fallen through the cracks. I have managed to take a bump picture every week, and I’m calling that a win!

The first trimester was my toughest yet. I don’t know if it is because I am over 30 now, or because this is my third pregnancy, or keeping up with two other kids, but I was so glad to finally get to the second trimester. Morning sickness was way worse this time around and I was beyond exhausted. Like lay on the couch all day while the kids watched way too much TV exhausted. Once I got to the twelve week mark I started feeling so much better!

After all the growth issues that we had with Colette, I was a little nervous about the anatomy scan. But everything was just fine. We found out we are having another GIRL! And she was absolutely perfect.  She was growing right on track, even measuring a couple of days ahead.

The second trimester was so much better (and easier) than the first! Other than my growing belly, I didn’t really feel pregnant. And with two littles keeping my busy and plenty of house updates to steal my attention, I quite often “forgot” that I was even pregnant. So far, the third trimester has proven to be quite different, but I’ll share more on that later.

DIY Easter

Painted Easter Eggs

This year, we started a new egg decorating tradition. We have always dyed real eggs in the past, with the store bought egg dye or with Kool-aid. But then I’m left with a dozen hard boiled eggs that no one wants to eat. I thought it would be fun to give something more permanent and thoughtful a try.

I bought wooden eggs and found this adorable white basket at Target. I plan to have each of the kids paint one egg every Easter. Then I can display them in this basket (or multiple baskets as we have more and more eggs) and look back on all of our past Easter celebrations.  Read More »